About Ron

Gold Star Son

  

On February 28, 1968, Ron Reyes was born in Southern California while his young father, Ronald “Ronnie” Reyes, was fighting at Khe Sanh in the height of the Vietnam War’s landmark Tet Offensive. Ronnie served with the Delta Company, 1st Battalion, 9th Marines, 3rd Marine Division, from July 1967 through March 1968. On March 30th, 1968, Ronnie was retrieving a seriously wounded Marine Brother in battle, when he himself was mortally wounded. At just 19 years old, Ronnie had been a father for one month, to a son who would carry his name though they’d never meet. Ron grew up knowing his father through photographs, stories, and memories. He learned about the Vietnam War as a child, and as he grew into adulthood he came to realize that the war held more to his relationship with his father. He started learning more about the war, and meeting others whose families had been marked like his. Ron came to feel that after so many years, he was living a life in the shadow of the Vietnam War. He visited the AV Wall in 2013 when it was in Simi Valley. That visit moved Ron to honor his father and come out of the shadows, to embrace the scarred history as he never had before. Ron traveled to Vietnam in 2015, and again in July 2019. During both visits, he stood on the very ground where his father last stood, and formed lifelong friendships with people around the world, all through a common bond of the Vietnam War. Ron shares his story and experiences through spoken word, and has been featured in multiple news outlets including the New York Times and the Washington Post. Ron has also been featured in two documentaries about Gold Star Children and the Vietnam War, both of which have been broadcast nationally on PBS. 


Through sharing his journey across the country and around the world, 

Ron hopes to inspire others to know and embrace their past, while always striving for a better future.


Ron is the father of a Danielle (24) and Ronnie (21).


 

Ron's girlfriend Stephanie ( www.FindMyVietnamVetDad.com ) is Amerasian and does not know her father. He was an American Serviceman that served in Vietnam during the late 60's to early 70's.


Stephanie and Ron are connected by war. 

Together they have joined forces to locate Stephanie's father. 


Stephanie has submitted DNA to the following:

Ancestry DNA

23 and Me DNA

Family Tree DNA

My Heritage

GED Match


The best chance of finding her father is through a DNA match.

Building Peace Homes in Vietnam

 

My father Ronald “Ronnie” Reyes was killed in action March 30, 1968 in a village just outside of the The gates of Khe Sanh (Ta Con) in the Quang Tri Province.


A home for a poor family will be built in his his honor in that very village of Vietnam.


Stephanie McLellan grew up in Bac Lieu. It is a city located about 6 hours south west of Saigon towards the southernmost region. Her father was an American serviceman that she has never met. (www.FindMyVietnamDad.com)


A home for a poor family will be be built in that area in honor of her Vietnamese mother (Phan Mai Huong) and her American father (We hope to announce his name before construction)


This could not be possible with out the help, support, and connections through the 2 Sides Project (www.2sidesproject.com). I was on the initial trip to connect the children of war on each side. That trip forever changed my life and my outlook. The 2 Sides Project will be working with their partner in Vietnam, The Vietnam USA Society (VUS). They have been instrumental in the 2 Sides Project trips to Vietnam, and the facilitating of these Peace Homes being built.


The goal is to extend the impact of fostering connections between the two sides of war, but also by supporting initiatives that ensure a positive outcome for future generations.


We will need help fundraising to help with the cost of building 2 homes. The cost of the home the home near Khe Sanh will be approximately $3,500. The cost of the home near Bac Lieu will be approximately $2,800.

We will use any funds over the $6,300 needed to build both houses towards the purchase of rice, or potentially help the next series of homes to be built.


Donations are tax-deductible. You can contribute via GoFundMe
https://www.gofundme.com/f/ron039s-campaign-for-2-sides-project-inc 

or directly at 2sidesproject.com/donate. Specify it is for the Ron and Stephanie Peace Homes


Stephanie and I have been joined by war. Our lives have guided us to this point to build a life together.


Thank you,


Ron and Stephanie


"The 2 sides Project"

I will Tell Festival London

"They Were Our Fathers"

2 minute clip

Documentaries / Newspaper Articles

PBS Presents “The 2 Sides Project”

PBS presents “They Were Our Fathers”

PBS presents “They Were Our Fathers”

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The 2 Sides Project is a feature documentary that follows the unforgettable journey of
six U.S. sons and daughters as they discover a country and a people with a shared history.


PBS presents “They Were Our Fathers”

PBS presents “They Were Our Fathers”

PBS presents “They Were Our Fathers”

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Some 20,000 American boys and girls lost their fathers during the Vietnam War. 

Their stories serve as powerful testimonies about the true cost of war.


Washington Post

PBS presents “They Were Our Fathers”

Washington Post

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Washington Post

New York Times

New York Times

Washington Post

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2 Sides Project Trip in the NY Times

Denver Post

New York Times

Virtual Wall

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 2 Sides Project in the Denver Post

Virtual Wall

New York Times

Virtual Wall

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More Articles

Simi Valley Acorn

Simi Valley Acorn

Simi Valley Acorn

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inWeekly

Orange County Register

GI Film Festival

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GI Film Festival

Orange County Register

GI Film Festival

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Even More Articles and Radio Interviews

the Zebra 05/01/2017

All Marine Radio 08/19/2019

All Marine Radio 08/19/2019

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All Marine Radio 05/22/2018

All Marine Radio 08/19/2019

All Marine Radio 05/22/2018

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the 2 sides Project

VVMF Wall of Faces Ronald Reyes

All Marine Radio 05/22/2018

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Bravo the Project

VVMF Wall of Faces Ronald Reyes

VVMF Wall of Faces Ronald Reyes

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VVMF Wall of Faces Ronald Reyes

VVMF Wall of Faces Ronald Reyes

VVMF Wall of Faces Ronald Reyes

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More stuff and Grandpa Reyes being interviewed

GI Film Festival

2 Sides Project - The Film

GoFundMe (Goal Hit)

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GoFundMe (Goal Hit)

2 Sides Project - The Film

GoFundMe (Goal Hit)

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2 Sides Project - The Film

2 Sides Project - The Film

2 Sides Project - The Film

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ABC News

Pasqual Reyes Hometown hero Interview

2 Sides Project - The Film

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Pasqual Reyes Hometown hero Interview

Pasqual Reyes Hometown hero Interview

Pasqual Reyes Hometown hero Interview

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Organizations

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Sons and Daughters In Touch (SDIT)

 America’s Gold Star Children from the Vietnam War  

Sons and Daughters In Touch is an all-volunteer, national support organization committed to uniting the Gold Star sons and daughters of American servicemen who were killed, or who remain missing, as a result of the Vietnam War. 

Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS)

 The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) offers compassionate care to all those grieving the loss of a loved one who died while serving in our Armed Forces or as a result of his or her service. Since 1994, TAPS has provided comfort and hope 24/7 through a national peer support network and connection to grief resources, all at no cost to surviving families and loved ones. 

Marine Corps League: President Ronald Reagan Detachment 597

 

Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference in the world. But, the Marines don’t have that problem.

— Ronald Reagan 

Vietnam Veterans Memorial Fund

The Vietnam Veterans Memorial 

"The Wall"

AV Wall

 The AV Wall is a half-scale size tribute monument of the Vietnam War Memorial in Washington, D.C. It is cared for by Point Man Antelope Valley (PMAV), a veterans outreach organization that ministers to veterans of all wars. 

Find My Vietnam Vet Dad

Stephanie was born in Vietnam in 1971. Her father was an American Soldier. She has never met him. Stephanie has lived in the US for over 30 years. Life has been great but she wants to meet her father.

Research

Coffelt Database

Coffelt Database

Coffelt Database

Database of Vietnam Casulaties

MGRS Conversion

Coffelt Database

Coffelt Database

How do you convert MGRS to work in Google maps?.....Here you go!

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Ron Reyes

Newport Beach, CA